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i am a lesbian looking for a gay man who's willing to get married in order to please his family

Hello everyone,

I've been in a relationship with a women for the past 8 years now, we're madly in love and content. For reasons I can't explain or disclose at the current moment, I'm searching for a gay man who is in a similar situation, would love to get married in order to please his family and live independently without hurting anyone.
tina898
36-40, F
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Vivaci
This won't solve anything only complicate things! 😕
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Vivaci
@tina898 My pleasure. All the best to you. 💞🤗
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tina898 · 36-40, F
🥰💗
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tina898 · 36-40, F
@Vivaci 🥰💗
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SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
He has to be willing to lie to his family. I’m sure there are men who would do that but not many.
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SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@tina898 You should bring up the subject with them.

What’s the worst that could happen?
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tina898 · 36-40, F
@SimplyTracie they're against it, I've tried.
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SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@tina898 Okay but I suspect that if your friends know about your girlfriend, so does your family.
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samanthasmokes · 41-45, F
nothing wrong with wanting to please your family ... but at the cost of denying your identity ... ??
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Montanaman · M
@samanthasmokes i realize that I'm being cynical and blunt. I'm just suspicious of a post like this. 😔
@tina898 please excuse my doubt if you are for reals. Best of luck to you. 😔
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tina898 · 36-40, F
@Montanaman @samanthasmokes thank you both for being so kind. I wish you the best of luck as well in all you do.
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samanthasmokes · 41-45, F
@Montanaman 🤞 👯
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Montanaman · M
Actually, I've seen a movie about this 🤔🤗
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Montanaman · M
@tina898 id have to do a search.👍
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Montanaman · M
@tina898
Just one of many.

http://whatismymovie.com/item?item=2102499
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tina898 · 36-40, F
wow thank you for sharing. I know what I'll be watching tonight lol
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Peterc · 36-40, M
There are sites to help you find other gay men and women in you situations...
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Montanaman · M
It's about money 🤑
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tina898 · 36-40, F
@Montanaman not at all. I don't need money
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Montanaman · M
@tina898 living a life to please others in a lie, is no life and eventually, people will get hurt. Spells disaster.
My opinion, sorry.
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tina898 · 36-40, F
@Montanaman you're right. But I wanna give it a shot, I know friends of mine who have been married for over 10 years that way and it worked.
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TonyPajamas · 26-30
That seems like a waste of time.
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tina898 · 36-40, F
@TonyPajamas to you it might, but its been a constant struggle of mine.
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TonyPajamas · 26-30
And you don’t think at any point in your life that it’s all going to fall apart and they’ll find out anyway? @tina898
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tina898 · 36-40, F
@TonyPajamas you make a valid point. It does worry me big time, not gonna lie, which is why I'm adamant about finding someone who's really struggling the same way i am. We don't have to live in the same country. If it works then perfect, if it doesn't then I guess it isn't meant to be.
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BalmyNites · F
What a tangled web we weave.....
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tina898 · 36-40, F
@BalmyNites when first we practice to deceive
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Lonelymanik · 36-40, M
Seeing the fact is that you may be a Indian. I agree but this is not a matrimonial site and nobody will be interested in marrying someone who’s entirely anonymous. Better find a gay man from other dating sites. But am not sure with getting married.
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tina898 · 36-40, F
@Lonelymanik I'm not Indian nor from Pakistan. Thank you for the advice though.
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SW-User
First of all no one gets married to please their family
2nd of all if being a lesbian makes you happy it has nothing to do with anyone else and you do not need anyone's approval including your family's
Lastly no one should or do lie about their sexuality
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tina898 · 36-40, F
@SW-User Easier said than done. I TOTALLY agree with everything you said but I'm not willing to come out for reasons that are beyond me. I know it would literally kill them. Thank your for taking the time to comment though. I appreciate it
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SW-User
@tina898 Well it's your life and good luck
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Elizabeth28 · TVIP
seem like a total f lie your in love whit a woman but wanta gay man to marry wtf is wrong whit you
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tina898 · 36-40, F
@Elizabeth28 take a breather, don't be too quick to judge. I'm not marrying a gay man for anything other than pleasing both our families. I'm not going to sleep with him or have any sort of affair. I don't like men that way. My partner knows 100% what my plans are. You have no idea where and what I've been though. Be kind
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