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Why is dating a younger man/boy a taboo out there?

And that too when it is experienced and loved by most.. whats your take on it?

Against or in favor?

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my first sex was with an older woman she taught me a lot about how please a woman and how a woman can please a man ,That knowledge has worked for me very well over the years with older and younger girls and women.

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FrogManSometimesLooksBothWays · M

@LongHairedCougar With an older woman or girl? Yes.

LongHairedCougar · 51-55, F

@FrogManSometimesLooksBothWays age gap.. how old are you now?

FrogManSometimesLooksBothWays · M

@LongHairedCougar Old enough.

JamesBugman · 56-60, T

Young guys are horny and can learn a lot from an older lady, but he will always be only a toy to play with for a while. If you are lucky enough to find a toy to play with, who cares what others think, have fun. He certainly will.

LongHairedCougar · 51-55, F

@JamesBugman that's so true

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Sojournersoul · M

Not sure it is that taboo anymore. If they are of age, i know i dont care who anyone dates.

NoThanksLeon · M

I don't care, but IMO it reeks of desperation. Desperation to FEEL young and attractive again. Old women THINK that getting a younger guy makes them beautiful and "hot".
No. Truth is, a young guy will **** [b][i]anything[/i][/b] as long as she is easy and it does not cost him too much. ANYTHING. A female orangutan can get a perpetually horny 20 year old guy to **** her. It is all an illusion. 🤷🏽‍♂️

gandalf1957 · 61-69, M

an older woman taught me a lot - she was 18 years older than me.

CactusJackManson · M

If you're both adults, go for it.

Loveandsex123 · F

It's not a taboo at all.But what matters is how younger.Unless the person isn't under 18 then everything's fine.

KatyO83 · 36-40, F

One of my current bfs is 10 years younger than me. If there is stigma I'm oblivious to it.

Jacko1971 · 51-55, M

@KatyO83 how many current boyfriends do you have? 😕

KatyO83 · 36-40, F

@Jacko1971 3 to 4. One I've not seen in a while we might be done 🤷🏻

SW-User

I used to want a young girl for myself in my late 20s because I didn’t want a 304 to one day take as my wife. I was a late bloomer and a virgin. I wanted someone untouched like myself, so I thought a lady under 25 was my best chance. I was in a relationship, and then lost our virginity in her early 20s. My views have changed over the last few years.

I think they’re right when they say anyone in high school or starting college is WAAAAY too young, especially for a person in his/her 50s. Out of college, they might have some worldly experience. 25 and over, is fair game. I find those stories of high school teachers in their 30s taking advantage of some horny high school boys morally wrong. The kids might be having fun times and busting their nuts, but again, they don’t know better.

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SW-User

@SandWitch okie dokie, Sandwitch. Hopefully your will have children and your teenage daughter runs off with a 50 y/o man. I don’t care about right wing or left wing, whatever. If you approve of a naive person being used by someone more than twice their age, idk what to tell you. Use common sense, please. Writing me an essay doesn’t make you more right than me. I forgot you may be lacking common sense, since you’re telling me to keep my nose out of a post that clearly asks for my opinion. 😂

SandWitch · 26-30, F

@SW-User
You are assuming that you are smarter and more worldly than a person half your age, though you would never know for sure because you've never dated anyone half your age and therefore have no concept of what that experience would actually be like for either party.

For you to say [quote]especially for a person in his/her 50s.[/quote] your ego is attempting to decide what's best for that 50 year old person, when in fact you have no clue what's best for anyone, not even for yourself most likely.

Like I said, you can only decide what's right for you and you alone, but under no circumstances can you stand up like the ego-driven American that you are and dictate what's best for all concerned because after all, you're older and supposedly wiser and therefore know it all.

Only some dumb-shitt who goes through life with his head stuffed up his ass would make the idiotic post that you did.

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Submissiveiendencies · 18-21

I learned a lot from one of my friend’s mother.

LongHairedCougar · 51-55, F

@Submissiveiendencies awww you naughty lil puppy

Submissiveiendencies · 18-21

@LongHairedCougar That right I was her naughty lil sub

LongHairedCougar · 51-55, F

@Submissiveiendencies how old are you now?

DrWatson · 70-79, M

If two people are happy, and of legal age, I wish them all the best.

LavidaRaq · F

It’s ok for older men, younger women, so it shouldn’t be a big deal.

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Ferric67 · M

date who you want, I am not judgmental
plus, I don't care

Northwest · M

I don't know what "out there" is, but it's 2024 and it's no big deal.

Panamared · 70-79, M

If it is it shouldn't be, date who you want, have fun

FrogManSometimesLooksBothWays · M

Older women dating younger men is a growing trend in China, where it's known as "Jiedilian", which translates to "Big Sister Love". In China, some men find older women attractive because they often help with chores, cooking, and caring for relatives

LongHairedCougar · 51-55, F

@FrogManSometimesLooksBothWays that's a new angle

Iwillwait · M

Because you'll become a "Gamer," in no time, next thing you know you're living in his Mother's basement, barking food orders up the unfinished stairs.

LongHairedCougar · 51-55, F

@Iwillwait 🤔

froggtongue · M

@Iwillwait you make it sound like it's a bad thing.

LongHairedCougar · 51-55, F

@froggtongue exactly

elafina · 36-40, F

I love them but I can't date them really. I don't find it a taboo unless the gap is too big and it's still nothing to blame

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elafina · 36-40, F

@KatyO83 I used to think similarly but nowadays I don't anymore, simplifying life I find that I like to grow together with my person and be able to relate to similar life phases...
But I still can get attracted by different ages.

LongHairedCougar · 51-55, F

@elafina bigger the gap better the vibe ❣️

elafina · 36-40, F

@LongHairedCougar not for me anymore ❤️

cd4259 · 61-69, M

In favour 💓😍👍👍🫶

thewindupbirdchronicles · 46-50, M

I'm in favour almost always. Not going to list my conditions as to why there, but they would be equal for either gender. I'm with a woman now six years my elder and I love her.

SilkandLace2 · 46-50, M

Have gun, will travel? Enjoy yourself; i was blessed enough to have a few older ladies enjoy my attention, i can't say decidedly that they necessarily taught me anything, but i did learn....🤗🤗🤗🤗

RileyLandS · 41-45, M

my gf is 29 years older than me and i've always been with women at least 20 years older than i am

LongHairedCougar · 51-55, F

@RileyLandS aww my puppy 💞

RileyLandS · 41-45, M

@LongHairedCougar woof woof ;)

LifeIsShort · 31-35, M

I honestly don't care about who dates who.

So should everyone except if you care about the person and the other person they are dating is crazy.

Gingerbreadspice · F

It’s not. Big age gaps are uncommon relatively for both genders but especially if the woman is old enough to be the guys mother.

bluesmanmark · 46-50, M

While the age gap between my wife is me is 12 years, (she's 58 & I'm 46), I agree with you. We've been happily married for 10 years.

smiler2012 · 56-60

@LongHairedCougar🤫 it is wrong and taboo if you listen to people and take any notice long as you are both happy and it works what does it matter 🤷‍♂️

Lostpoet · M

😠
Buy me coffee and then i'll tell you.

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Lostpoet · M

@LongHairedCougar *Marries you🖇️

LongHairedCougar · 51-55, F

@Lostpoet lol what?

JamesBugman · 56-60, T

@LongHairedCougar I think he skipped past the fun parts. lol

PhoenixPhail · M

I didn't know dating a younger man [i]was[/i] a taboo. I think age is just a number.

Snuffy1957 · 61-69, M

I see nothing wrong with it.. I had an older woman for my first sexual encounter 👅

RedBaron · M

There’s no against or in favor.

It’s an individual choice and nobody else really cares.

Livingwell · 61-69, M

I don't think it is now days. Movie stars do it. It's pretty common.

GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M

Because accusing people of being a pedophile is a fad these days

cecile · F

i don'r think its taboo at all go for it, i am all for it

Musicman · 61-69, M

My wife is 6 years older than me. June will make 34 years for us.

Areebah · 46-50, F

Its not taboo anymore..

gandalf1957 · 61-69, M

@Areebah what country are you living in?

Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M

I certainly don’t see a problem

Pudhumanithan · 70-79, M

It will be definitely exciting!

Sam17 · 16-17, M

As long as its legal should be ok

scorpiolovedeep · 46-50, M

Each to their own

BizSuitStacy · M

I don't see an issue

Arantxa · 18-21, F

No !

Adogslife · 61-69, M

Against only when you use the word, “boy”. If you want to date younger, go for it. I’m sure your date will be appreciative.

Jacko1971 · 51-55, M

What age are we taking?

LongHairedCougar · 51-55, F

@Jacko1971 20+ year age gap

Jacko1971 · 51-55, M

@LongHairedCougar i would say lucky man. He had better treat you right.

LongHairedCougar · 51-55, F

@Jacko1971 haha

swirlie · 31-35, F

It's only taboo in ultra-conservative countries like UK and the USA. Anywhere else in the world, a woman who dates a younger male is actually more respected than a younger woman who dates a much older man.

SandWitch · 26-30, F

@swirlie
I couldn't agree more with you. Excellent perspective you have!

swirlie · 31-35, F

@SandWitch
More experience than perspective, believe me when I say!

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LongHairedCougar · 51-55, F

@FrogManSometimesLooksBothWays ouch! That was pretty in their faces haha

FrogManSometimesLooksBothWays · M

@LongHairedCougar It's true.

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LongHairedCougar · 51-55, F

@froggtongue true that ❤️

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LongHairedCougar · 51-55, F

@4meAndyou to each their own honey ❣️