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Badjujubee · 46-50, F
Both for fear of undercooking it myself and for ordering it from somewhere that does the same. As well as all the other “ingredients” that I don’t want in my body. (Antibiotics and so on…)
Chicken scares me enough that I almost never eat it. Unless my mom has prepared it and it’s in a soup or something I skip it all together. I don’t even remember the last time I had anything with chicken.
Badjujubee · 46-50, F
@sree251 I was a little too confident in my abilities when I was younger and I was very competitive with the sports that were my primary interests and my passion. I did it snowboarding and mountain biking and at the time it was my profession and I loved it so much. Now it’s left a little more of a bitter taste but in my mid to late 20’s it was pretty sweet. I ended up getting back into it in my mid to late thirties and I just found out that I have broken the titanium fusion and I have burst all the discs above the fusion and below my thoracic level 10 and 11 vertebrae which means that my surgeon wants to remove the old titanium and replace it with about 8 levels of new titanium which means I won’t be able to bend at the waist for the rest of my life and I’m just not ready for that kind of restriction yet. So I’m trying my best to get by with maintenance like acupuncture and exercise for now. I’m hoping that I can stretch that out as long as possible too.
sree251 · 41-45, M
@Badjujubee [quote] I ended up getting back into it in my mid to late thirties and [b]I just found out that I have broken the titanium fusion and I have burst all the discs above the fusion and below my thoracic level 10 and 11 vertebrae [/b]which means that my surgeon wants to remove the old titanium and replace it with about 8 levels of new titanium which means I won’t be able to bend at the waist for the rest of my life and I’m just not ready for that kind of restriction yet. [/quote]

You just found out about the broken titanium and burst discs? Was it an accident or did they all those discs break by themselves? You must have suffered a lot of pain. A friend of mine had a slipped disc and he was practically crawling around on the floor to avoid pain when moving around.

You are definitely a very driven person. I have watched snowboarding in the Olympics. You guys must be really pushing the limits. Don't you ever think of the downside and the consequences? This is not a criticism. I am basically a coward. I avoid risks. Not pushing the edge has downsides also. Could you tell me about your sense of confidence and not being hampered by fear of the consequences you are dealing with now?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VqrYr6Z_40c
Badjujubee · 46-50, F
@sree251 I don’t mean just yesterday but it’s a recent discovery. I didn’t think it was possible for me to break the fusion loose from the way that it’s literally drilled into my vertebrae with bone screws. But I am clear about the fact that it is not functional anymore. The disc situation was equally distressing and disappointing to hear about. The way that my pain went up from my usual level was enough to make it impossible to keep doing the things that I enjoyed and so I started looking for a doctor and was referred to the best surgeon in the area. He took his time getting as much information as possible in the fork of up to date scans of the problem area and after comparing them to the next most recent scans he was able to see what changed in my lower lumbar spine. It was both informative and upsetting to hear that I wasn’t just becoming hypersensitive to my usual level of pain but I had a lot of new damage and problems.
I wasn’t able to do things the way that I had done them before my first back surgery, I was able to get on the snow and on my bikes but not on consecutive days unless I really pushed myself and the snow was soft. I know I wasn’t able to ride my bike on consecutive days after I moved back up to the mountains. I had 6 good years and 2 terrible years and then I had to move back down because I couldn’t even get to the grocery store with the level of pain that I’m still currently in all the time now. I’m just not ready to get an 8-9 level titanium fusion installed through a small opening in my abdomen just below my navel and I don’t know if I ever will be. It comes with no guarantees of pain relief but it will certainly change my life and lifestyle. I was told no more bikes and no more snow and I might not even be comfortable sitting in a car let alone driving one. So that’s what I’m trying to weigh out. When do I get bad enough that I choose the only option left.
How I did that much damage to my reinforced but previously damaged spine is still a mystery to me and I was there. I probably carried too much weight in my backcountry pack and I rode too often but I felt like I was being significantly more careful and less aggressive than I had been in my career in my twenties. I do sometimes wonder how I wasn’t incredibly careful with such a precious thing but I was told that I would have that titanium in my body for the rest of my life and that I was as good as I ever could be made. My pain was still present but structurally I was solid and perhaps more so than ever. And yet I’m back to being unable to get out of bed on my worst days which is virtually every day now. Hopefully this answers your questions if not feel free to pm me and I can give you specifics. Hope you’re having a nice weekend. ☺️😊

NativePortlander1970 Best Comment
You need to get an insta read thermometer, chicken cooks to 165F white meat and 185F dark meat, I recommend this one.
https://www.amazon.com/ThermoPro-TP605-Thermometer-Waterproof-Foldaway/dp/B09PHK8JC1/ref=mp_s_a_1_10_sspa?crid=2Z8XW1Y3EECSN&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.yqtzNp4k9_4Mi5czsBdIB_oYJdPIeOy1_P6IDyEwvgHX22S3G5BlSdt_1uRWPeq5L6fiibQp_gYZ0h3UxHc-qMYCh4ZbkCA5ffqUtrL1eKi2tzGgGlQZ1wBMs1eS3XjdWnHULD4o1Q-_4ZSVZI5OdmkxIsTqi9uFqquxd8XjwZnZ6WxBQgUHkzyutW5UlrbAPDjLdr6ZHaXBlEjHMrVI8Q.9Yl3BgDCo_w0KfXDoehqvjzzAbQa3WGs9XXToFwPCcg&dib_tag=se&keywords=instaread+meat+thermometer+digital&qid=1714694992&sprefix=instarea%2Caps%2C300&sr=8-10-spons&sp_csd=d2lkZ2V0TmFtZT1zcF9waG9uZV9zZWFyY2hfbXRm&psc=1
itsok · 31-35, F
@NativePortlander1970 I have the same brand, but I think a different model and it works well and has lasted several years at this point
@itsok They last a long time :)
No, I just cook it to death like I do all meat.
@EzShadows I bake cod & sole. With salmon I make croquettes (my grandmother’s recipe). I used to prepare them for my mother, who had loved them from her childhood.
Elessar · 26-30, M
@Elessar Lol, basically. 😄
Good timing. .I'm grilling a spatchcock chicken right now. Get a meat thermometer. Insert into the middle of the thigh and get a reading 165-170...it's done.

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@sree251 the wing tips were already removed on this chicken, so no tucking. The bird weighs about 4 lbs, but it's pasture raised, and not one of those confinement raised Cornish-cross birds.
No. Just get a meat thermometer.
EzShadows · 18-21, M
@MorbidCynic brb, going to home depot or wherever I would get that
BnBSpringer09 · 26-30, F
@EzShadows You can get them at Wal-Mart in the section with all of the cooking supplies. Probably Target or any other similar stores as well.
No.

Like any food that can give you food poisoning You just need to learn to store, cook it or prepare it properly then you will be fine.

I suggest getting a meat thermometer if you want to double-check that your chicken is cooked all the way. You will have more confidence in your cooking! Enjoy!
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
@shakemeup Meat thermometer master race.
@CountScrofula someone should make a study of the psychological origins of tool use. 🤔

you be you.

some of us just need more tools to successfully cook and gain confidence in cooking. The thermometer is a bit of a crutch. I'm jealous of those that don't require a meat thermometer for food safety. They are the real chefs.

I lack the natural talent/observational skills to just look at some meats and just know if it's done or not (mostly because I don't cook meat often enough to remember via repetition) much less treat cooking as the art that it is rather than a science.

It works for me and so I recommend it.

I humbly bow to the chefs who have better cooking instincts then I do.
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
@shakemeup I have good cooking instincts I find as my beloved thermapen slowly dies, but not perfect. Maybe if I cooked the same cut of meat over and over again. The thermometer lets me expand my range quickly without requiring the repetition.

That said I still tent to have a good knack for knowing when food is done at this point, but gimme that thermometer confidence.
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
Its not that hard to cook chicken. You can visually see if the meat is cooked or not. Just throw it back in if its not. Your not going to die if you eat it, maybe just shit your pants a little.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
I was at your age and avoided cooking meat in general for a long time before I started trusting my judgement. Now I have no issues with it.
Massageman · 70-79, M
I have both instant read insertion thermometers and laser surface temp ones. You just have to be sure to bring poultry to 165ºF for at least 15 seconds, but I usually go higher and longer anyway.

Yes, I had to become certified in Food Safety Management for one of my prior jobs at a spa because they served food IN the spa (those profit mongers). Most of this stuff just became engrained in my head after doing it at work for so long.
I overcook chicken for that reason. In 2017 & in 2020 had salmonella poisoning and it was horrible.
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
I was when I was your age. Confidence comes with experience. Until then, get a meat thermometer.
It's troublesome...always checking if the meat is white or still pink.
Buying fresh isn't always without issues either.

I purchased 3 chicken breasts.
As they cooked, I got busy with tasks.
Their aroma hit me, and momentarily forgot what was roasting; "That salmon will be delicious!" I thought out loud.

I dumped the chicken in the trash b4 I'd finished the thought.
chasingThursday · 36-40, M
A chicken running around with its head cut off is pretty scary
Convivial · 26-30, F
Buy yourself a meat thermometer
justlooking2023 · 56-60, M
@Convivial Does that get placed below the sausage?
Massageman · 70-79, M
Get chicken breasts, cut them into cubes or strips, sauté at 300-350ºF until cooked and lightly browned. Add paprika, S&P, enjoy. We seldom cook a whole chicken any more. We will stop at Costco and get a rotisserie chicken for $4.99 and get 10-12 servings out of it, so 50¢ a serving or less for our protein!
EzShadows · 18-21, M
@MysteryGirl glad somebody can relate
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Any bird 165°f or above. Don't be afraid of going a little higher.

This is a turkey, yet it's singed at the edges at 174°f


So this would be too much for chicken. Anything within that range should be just right.
It's funny I have the opposite problem I'm always afraid of overcooking and drying it out I have a pretty good knack for it now..always marinade first!
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
I tend to avoid chicken because of the bonkers farming techniques that led to most birds being infected with salmonella in the first place 🤷‍♀️
DealingWithTrouble · 36-40, M
Depends what you're cooking.

If it's white meat the meat thermometer is your best bet, if it's dark meat I prefer to slow-cook and then just broil at the end.
Fluffybull · F
It's not the cooking that scares me, it's the preparing......
EzShadows · 18-21, M
@Fluffybull PEOPLE WASH CHICKEN?
Fluffybull · F
@EzShadows Unfortunately some people still do......🙄
looping · 18-21
i just cut it in strips then cook it for like 7-8 minutes. pretty easy way to avoid salmonella.
I used to overcook it for fear of undercooking it but I think I've got it now.
Harmonium1923 · 51-55, M
Nope. I just cook it thoroughly and carefully.

Pro tip: if you’re grilling or broiling chicken pieces, you can put them in booking water and simmer 30 mins before grilling. That cooks them through and keeps them tender. Then you grill or broil until they are crispy and delicious.
@Harmonium1923 I do this too. Good pro tip!
BnBSpringer09 · 26-30, F
I don't love cooking it, or any other meat for that matter, because it seems so hard to get just right, and to do it consistently. I swear, the one time you get it perfect, you can never recreate it.

I second the suggestion for a meat thermometer, too!
@BnBSpringer09 Practice makes perfect
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
Chicken is not poison and it is not a high-risk food to consume. Otherwise we'd all be dead considering its the most widely-consumed meat in the US. It -can- carry salmonella, but that does not mean it -always- carries salmonella.

If it's pink, cook it more. It's really not that bad.
4meAndyou · F
I just read that if you boil chicken legs or thighs, or chicken leg quarters first, they come out much more tender after then being baked. So...boil 20 minutes, preheat oven to 400F, seaton chicken, then bake skin side up for 25 minutes.
Nebula · 41-45, F
TexChik · F
Get a meat thermometer. When it hits 165, take up the chicken and let it set for about 10 minutes before you eat it.
No. I dry brine it. Salting it an hour or so ahead of time. And if I'm not sure if it's done I'll use a thermometer
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
No but liked you said, they practices of large commercial chicken production is deplorable.
Not a fear exactly, but I’d hate that so much. So my chicken tends to be a bit overcooked. 🫣
They do have fryers with settings for chicken, check at any home supply store
Get a suitable food thermometer so you can check to assure it is cooked and is safe to eat.
smiler2012 · 56-60
@EzShadows 🤫yes can understand both pork and chicken are very risky too eat undercooked
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
Lean how to cook with gas or electricity instead of fear.
fun4us2b · M
I overcook it then put BBQ sauce on it - not bad...
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
That's what they make cooking thermometers for.
tfan123 · 41-45, M
I’m scared to cook any meat for that fear
hunkalove · 61-69, M
I've never tried because of that.
Goodluckwiththat · 56-60, M
Buy a meat thermometer!
TrashCat · M
Never had a problem. Nope
HumanEarth · 56-60, F
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lumberjackslam · 41-45, M
if its still breathing, thats a bad sign
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@EzShadows girl you can have anything you want 😉
EzShadows · 18-21, M
@Nunlover not a girl
@EzShadows well this explains why no lobster for you 😉

 
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