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Young men are too rough in sex.

When I was young,we used to take things smoothly in bed.But young men these days are monsters in bed.I literally limped to my work the next day,lol.
(PS:I enjoy both type of sex.Just wanted to say how times have changed.)

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Stephie · F Best Comment

I believe that the porn industry makes a fantastic job at frying their brains. They seem to want to act the same way as what they see on those clips.

Some like it and some less. Some walk away unharmed and yet others, will limp the next day 😀

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Stephie · F

@Heartlander That is so true and your generation is, in my eyes, the one that is closest to what erotica must have been. There was no internet and people had to use their imagination to picture the beauties of a body. Nowadays, porn suggests how a person must look and the power of imagination is left out. Sad in my eyes.

Heartlander · 80-89, M

@Stephie As much as I and my generation may like to take credit for that, it may also be that porn was also illegal during my formative years, so imagination had to fill in the gap and steps into the unknown had to be taken cautiously and slowly.

I'm trying to imagine me at 16 with today's porn. An almost impossible merger.

wudifu · 46-50, M

@Heartlander thats why these days in enjoy reading it more than watchi g it

Starcrossed · 41-45, F

Isn't that limp what some of strive for...

Maybe I've been going about things wrong this whole time...😳🤔😲

LoveandSex · F

@Starcrossed Ofc,we do.
I just stated what I thought and I really enjoyed that kind of sex.

RuyLopez · 56-60, M

Too much porn. There is a time and place for everything. Well….a lot of things anyway.

bugeye · 26-30, F

this is why communication is key. bf responds to whatever vocal cues i give him. sometimes i enjoy a nice sensually romantic romp other times i like my face smooshed into the pillow. how's he supposed to know which to go for if i don't say something.

exexec · 61-69, C

It has been a while, but I asked my wife about her experience with younger men when she was the "older" woman. She agreed that she usually had to make them slow down and enjoy the process. That was years ago.

black4white · 56-60, M

The diff is this... younger guys (including myself) went for the physical aspects....so you ache for a couple days and we think we did GREAT.... as men age they learn that its more mental and connective and slows down eases up and then that last for weeks or even longer. Its a process that most go thru and well hope it was fun and maybe next time let him know slow down a bit and enjoy :-)

WizardofOz · 26-30, M

I'm usually gentle but if I'm really in the mood, I can get a little rough. It's funny, because when it has happened, every girl I've been with always said the same thing, in a very quiet voice, they'd say, "Oh, Paul, be nice. Oh, Be nice". I think they did like it, somewhat, but did want the gentleness toward the end.

in10RjFox · M

They are not rough, but just too excited. Have you seen kids playing inside a car making the sound of a car and engaging all gears ? It takes time for them to develop passion for driving.

And now that Viagra is easily available, they don't want to miss the opportunity to premature ejacs.

TheGreatLeveler · 31-35, M

Has more to do with hookups > relationships nowadays than the influence of porn. With things being more casual, the focus tends to become more on sex than intimacy, so to speak.

TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 41-45, MVIP

never heard a woman complain about not being able to walk right afterwards...

Domking · 61-69, M

Meacculpa.I have been guilty of being too hurried and too rough in lovemaking.

wudifu · 46-50, M

Well i guess you wont forget that session too quickly

Sandcastler · 22-25, M

Maybe they just appreciate being with someone who can it like that

smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F

Well that is where pound that p**** came from

DownTheStreet · 51-55, M

They’re always in a hurry , so I am told

Blake10Exe · M

I’ve been told a lot to go slower and softer 😭😂

Shallowaters · 36-40, M

Well it all depends on the intensity

sweetboyhere · 26-30, M

I am not...I like to use my tongue more

Shallowaters · 36-40, M

It depends on both the people

Teslin · M

Gentle and make it last !!

Wolffy · 56-60, M

Ever try older man..?

Degbeme · 70-79, M

You say that like it`s a bad thing. 😬

LoveandSex · F

@Degbeme I didn't mean that way.

Bumbles · 51-55, M

You have agency.

LoveandSex · F

@Bumbles What?

mindlessdrifter · M

Yes I get that all the time lol 😅

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HumanEarth · 56-60, F

What are you 75 now

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LoveandSex · F

@SW-User What's very Indian about this?

Heartlander · 80-89, M

@SW-User Interesting comment. I thought likewise. Based on the notion that Indian culture is a bit more mature than our western cultures; so while my European ancestors were beating on one another with swords and clubs, their Indian counterparts were focused on the exquisite intricacy of lovemaking :)

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LoveandSex · F

@mindlessdrifter I didn't say I haven't enjoyed that.

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