How did it feel when u got divorced ?

Were u sad , happy , frustrated , missing him or her straight after , thinking it was a mistake even thinking you will be lonely and alone for a long time after ?

What was your reaction ?
Did u do everything u can to safe your marraige ?

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Torsten · 36-40, M

was never divorced but i was engaged long term and that ended very badly.
Honestly never really felt anything. Didn't know how to feel. Kinda numb to it at first.
There was days she would go out and i would get dark thoughts every so often like if she got in a horrific accident on the way home and didnt survive it and well, that was probably the happiest few moments of my time with her at the end of it.
We only stayed together as long as we did because we had a child together and despite all the bullshit she put me through for years after we ended our relationship, i am honestly thankful she had the balls to initiate the break up cause i would have stuck in it for good while being utterly miserable because i put my son first always

wudifu · 46-50, M

@Torsten horrific man......they day a women cab make or break a man......and like me.....i try my best always and kindest and most energtic......but i get slack....no motivation not happy towards me and tries to shift the vlame always.......life must be on the up for you now ?